{"componentChunkName":"component---src-templates-tag-tsx","path":"/tag/perfection/","result":{"data":{"ghostTag":{"slug":"perfection","name":"Perfection","visibility":"public","feature_image":null,"description":null,"meta_title":null,"meta_description":null},"allGhostPost":{"totalCount":2,"edges":[{"node":{"slug":"kill-it-seeking-perfection","feature_image":"https://thinksaveretire.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/pexels-photo-707047.jpeg","title":"Kill It: Seeking perfection is your sworn enemy","published_at":"2018-03-12T10:00:31.000+00:00","primary_author":{"name":"Steve Adcock","profile_image":"https://www.gravatar.com/avatar/ae0b2f8d459bad06e6d287fa4a74b1ea"},"html":"<p><strong>In the public sector, we have a saying that goes something like this: \"Good enough for government work!\". It implies that the government doesn't expect perfection, so \"good enough\" is often all you'll need to put into an assignment.</strong></p><p><em>This article is a part of the <a href=\"https://thinksaveretire.com/kill-it\">Kill It!</a> series of articles aimed at streamlining your life into a well-oiled machine.</em></p><p>Sadly, it also implies that \"good enough\" is somehow inferior. After all, the saying isn't \"Give it your all and forget the rest\". We're talking about calling it good somewhere before you reach the unattainable level of \"perfect\".</p><p>The truth is <strong>perfection is impossible to achieve</strong>. Flat out impossible. We're humans, and humans make mistakes. With everything we do, there's always something that we could have done differently. Done better. Quicker.</p><p>You, my friend, are not perfect. I'm not either. That's life.</p><p>In fact, <a href=\"https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200001/the-cost-perfection\" rel=\"noopener\">this study</a> suggests that those who constantly seek perfection are more likely to experience both <em>emotional</em> as well as <em>physical</em> problems.</p><p>Umm, no thanks.</p><h2 id=\"my-life-of-good-enough\">My life of good enough</h2><p>As far back as I can remember, I lived the \"good enough\" life to a T. Perhaps I was born a natural economist. I never put forth an ounce of additional effort when I believed that I had already squeaked out as much as I could.</p><p>It's like when you're at the bottom of a can of soda. You drink until no more comes out even though we all realize there's just a bit still left. You stop with the soda stops. It's good enough.</p><p>In school, I strived to keep my grades slightly above average. More Bs than Cs. An occasional A here and there. I didn't strive for straight As because I didn't feel they were necessary. I did my best to plant myself in that well-populated area slightly above the fold, then called it good.</p><p>I always used a similar philosophy when at work. Each assignment I completed to the very best of my ability. I did the work - <em>sometimes went above and beyond</em>, but I knew when I had already squeezed out as much juiciness as I could from the task. At that point, I was done.</p><p>Hell, even with early retirement, I chose to utilize a good enough philosophy. We retired with close to - but slightly less than - a million dollars in the bank, which is far less than most people believe that we need for early retirement in our mid-30s. But, we did it anyway. We were close enough. It just wasn't worth another year working a job that I didn't enjoy.</p><p>Damn, look at all this \"good enough\"-ness. I've never done anything perfectly, and probably never will.</p><p>But still, I retired from full-time work at the age of 35, and I never looked back. I called it good - <em>to include my career</em> - without trying to eek out another year. Another hundred thousand. Another year working a job I didn't enjoy. We achieved our good enough number, then bailed.</p><h2 id=\"this-isn-t-about-half-assing-your-life\">This isn't about half-assing your life</h2><p>Good enough is not the same as half-assing it. Being irresponsible or intentionally lazy with your school, work or life, in general, will never be the answer to your prayers. It won't let you escape the wretched grasp of corporate America and live a life of pure freedom.</p><p>In fact, it's precisely the opposite.</p><p>When you're lazy, you leave money on the table. You miss promotions at work that could send your progress toward your goals into overdrive. When people cannot depend on you, you create a scenario that keeps you on the outside. An outlier, but not in the positive sense.</p><p>Never mistake <em>good enough</em> for <em>not trying your best</em>.</p><h2 id=\"getting-closer-to-perfection\">Getting closer to perfection</h2><p>Former football coach Vince Lombardi once said:</p><!--kg-card-begin: html--><blockquote><p>Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence</p></blockquote><!--kg-card-end: html--><p>While perfection is impossible to achieve, there is wisdom in striving for the best that you can be. Incredible wisdom.</p><p>Here are several techniques that can help you reach toward perfection and hopefully get a little closer to it. I've employed these techniques throughout my life to maximize success with the time I put into my tasks.</p><p><strong>Break down tasks</strong> - One of the biggest inhibitors to success is the sense of being <em>overwhelmed</em>. When things appear too big to handle, we clam up. We assume that they are too hard or just impossible. But, nine times out of 10, they are achievable. We just gotta approach them the right way.</p><p>For example, let's say you want to lose weight. 100 pounds. To most people, losing 100 pounds probably seems like a monumental task. How could anyone lose 100 pounds? That's insane!</p><p>But, think of it this way. It's not so insane when you break that goal down into more easily achievable parts. Say, two pounds a week. Or 10 pounds a month. Doesn't two pounds a week seem like a much more reasonable task than losing the entire 100? This is how I lost 50 pounds several years ago after ballooning up to 260 pounds leading an unhealthy lifestyle.</p><p><strong>Focus on your time, not the end result</strong> - \"Keep your eye on the prize\", right? While I understand the wisdom behind those words, I also believe that it keeps us focused on the mountain that we're climbing rather than the smaller and more manageable steps that we're taking to get there.</p><p>In the back of our minds, we know that we're climbing a mountain. Every time we look up, we see that distant peak that looks impossibly far. Way too high for any reasonable human being to reach. In this case, don't keep your eye on the prize. Keep your head down and focus on those steps. Each step represents progress. Sweet, sweet progress.</p><p>Instead of focusing on that mountain peak, pick out much closer milestones. Then, set out to achieve each and every one. That rock about 30 feet away...yeah, that looks like an awesome rock to stop at for a minute. Let's just get there. Then, it's the patch of green grass over there. That looks soft and comfy. Let's go there. Before we know it, we're halfway up that sucker.</p><p>We're about to conquer that mountain!</p><p><strong>Do your best and forget the rest</strong> - Regardless of how well you may do something, there will almost always be someone out there who will do it better. Faster. More efficiently. And, that's okay.</p><p>While there is wisdom in doing the best that you can and consistently improving over time, resist (yes, <strong>RESIST</strong>!) the temptation to compare yourself with others. That's always a lose-lose proposition. Your life's goals isn't about anyone else. The car someone else drives should have no bearing on the car that you choose to drive. That's their life, not yours.</p><p><strong>Just F-ing do it!</strong> - You don't need the \"perfect\" plan before you begin. If your goal is to lose 100 pounds, get yourself into the gym and just start. Start on the treadmill or on an elliptical. In short order, you'll build enough confidence to branch out a bit and maybe pick up a dumbbell or two. It all adds up. Progress builds. But, you gotta start. You just gotta start.</p><p>Believe me, I didn't have a clue about working out when I first set foot in a gym. I'd be the guy you'd see reading those little stickers on the machines to figure out how to do the exercise. I selected a very light weight, then pushed through an easy set of 10 reps to get a feel for the exercise. Then, I'd kick it up 10 pounds and try another set. I'd keep doing that until I was comfortable with the challenge. Each time, I had the strength to do just a little bit more.</p><p>Progress can only happen after you start. You don't need a detailed plan. You don't need it all worked out. You just gotta f-ing do it.</p>","tags":[{"name":"Perfection","slug":"perfection"},{"name":"Mistakes","slug":"mistakes"},{"name":"Kill It series","slug":"kill-it-series"},{"name":"Change Your Life","slug":"change-your-life"},{"name":"How Life-Changing Things Happen","slug":"how-life-changing-things-happen"},{"name":"Retire Sooner","slug":"retire-sooner"}]}},{"node":{"slug":"lyndon-johnson-success","feature_image":"https://thinksaveretire.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/lyndon-johnson.jpg","title":"Lyndon Johnson's 10 keys to success","published_at":"2017-05-08T10:00:17.000+00:00","primary_author":{"name":"Steve Adcock","profile_image":"https://www.gravatar.com/avatar/ae0b2f8d459bad06e6d287fa4a74b1ea"},"html":"<h5 id=\"success-is-a-fickle-thing-it-comes-easier-to-some-than-for-others-but-it-s-almost-never-impossible-to-achieve-with-the-right-attitude-and-a-few-good-habits-success-gets-easier-and-easier-apparently-former-president-lyndon-johnson-had-something-to-say-on-the-topic-\">Success is a fickle thing. It comes easier to some than for others, but it's almost never impossible to achieve. With the right attitude and a few good habits, success gets easier and easier. Apparently, former president Lyndon Johnson had something to say on the topic.</h5><figure class=\"kg-card kg-image-card\"><img src=\"https://thinksaveretire.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/lyndon-johnson-300x169.jpg\" class=\"kg-image\"></figure><p>I learned about Johnson's 10 keys to success from the book \"<a href=\"http://amzn.to/2pbkquR\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Magic of Thinking Big</a>\". Good book. It was written back in the late 1950s, so references to salaries and other numbers are, in a word, downright <em>hilarious</em>.</p><p>Few people would accuse any president of lacking in the way of success. These individuals know how to connect with people. They manipulate the world around them in their favor. Lyndon Johnson was no exception.</p><p>I thought these keys were so interesting that I needed to write about them.</p><h2 id=\"lyndon-johnson-s-10-keys-to-success\">Lyndon Johnson's 10 keys to success</h2><ol><li><strong>Remember names</strong>. Inefficiency at this point may indicate that your interest is not sufficiently outgoing.</li><li><strong>Maintain a comfortable persona</strong> so there is no strain in being with you. Be an old-show, old-had kind of individual.</li><li><strong>Acquire the quality of relaxed easy-going</strong> so that things do not ruffle you.</li><li><strong>Don’t be egotistical</strong>. Guard against the impression that you know it all.</li><li><strong>Be interesting</strong> so people will get something of value from their association with you.</li><li><strong>Get the “scratchy” elements out of your personality</strong>, even those of which you may be unconscious.</li><li><strong>Sincerely attempt to heal every misunderstanding</strong> you have had or now have. Drain off your grievances.</li><li><strong>Practice liking people</strong> until you learn to do so genuinely.</li><li><strong>Never miss an opportunity to congratulate anyone’s achievement</strong>, or express sympathy in sorry or disappointment.</li><li><strong>Give spiritual strength to people</strong> and they will give genuine affection to you.</li></ol><p>In truth, I suck at almost all of these. I am horrible with names and I would consider my <em>entire</em> personality to be fairly \"scratchy\". Though, I am about as easy-going as it comes, and I definitely don't consider myself to be a know-it-all (to point 4). I don't necessarily like everyone I meet, though. At least automatically. I need to practice implicitly liking people more!</p><p>The one point that I got down pat is maintaining a comfortable persona. It's like being with an old friend when you're around me. I will ask you inappropriate questions after we first meet. I will pretty much agree to anything within reason. I'm not all that hard-headed. You wanna try a new IPA at the brewery? I'm game (even though I hate IPAs). Have an interest in fishing next weekend? Sure, why not (I don't enjoy fishing). I'm a very go-with-the-flow kind of person.</p><p>Or, want to try cross-dressing to finish out the week? Okay...might draw the line here, but after a few IPAs...maybe not? You get the point.</p><p>Remembering names is super powerful. Have you ever had someone end the initial conversation with strong eye contact and a \"it was a pleasure to meet you, Bill / Nancy\"? When they use your name, it creates a powerful connection between you two.</p><p>My in-laws do this incredibly well. At restaurants, they make a point of getting the waiter or waitress's name and they use it. The service has a way of getting better that way. Our drinks always seem to remain full. Sometimes, discounts (or intentional omissions) wind up on the check. We even had a waitress give us a coupon for a free beer at my favorite Tucson brewery because we were nice to her and called her by name (yes, she told us so!).</p><p>Being nice and using names really works.</p><p>Reading keys to success is a fun exercise...so fun, in fact, that I feel compelled to come up with 10 keys of my own. Whatcha think?</p><figure class=\"kg-card kg-image-card kg-card-hascaption\"><img src=\"https://thinksaveretire.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/20161228-DSC00342-300x300.jpg\" class=\"kg-image\"><figcaption>Cold selfie from Zion National Park</figcaption></figure><h2 id=\"my-10-keys-to-success\">My 10 keys to success</h2><ol><li>Be an <strong>agreeable person</strong></li><li>Be <strong>relentlessly happy</strong> - always</li><li><strong>Care not</strong> what other people think of you</li><li><strong>Never expect perfection</strong>; it is unattainable</li><li><strong>Don't hate</strong>; it takes way the hell too much energy</li><li><strong>Do not worry</strong> about elements outside of your control</li><li><strong>Have confidence in yourself</strong>; believe that you will succeed</li><li><strong>Make the best decisions you can</strong> and commit to them 100%</li><li><strong>Be proactive</strong> - don't wait for things to happen; make them happen</li><li><strong>Never forget your mistakes</strong>; learn from them to make fewer of them</li></ol><p>What are your keys to success? <strong>Here's a challenge</strong> - write about your keys to success in one of your next blog posts. Just like I did with Johnson's keys, give us your thoughts on his keys, then write your own. 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